This is my first ever blog that am sharing with u people...though many were written and kept to myself...bcos i always thought....they were not worth sharing...and how bad it will sound to the poor readers...but atlast thought...what the hell...i may not be good....but atleast i can be myself....so here i am...!!!!!
When i first thought of penning something down...the first question that came to mind was..what..?????..many of my friends suggested that I should start a blog about cooking...sharing the recipes and all...since they think am good at it....and may be someday i will..........but to me if there is something in my life worth writing for...than it has to be about ''My best friend for Life''.....because to me he is the most wowest and awesomest gift God has ever gifted me.....so here it is for u......with all the love...from the bottom of my heart...
Its been almost two decades that me and Kaushik know each other...sometimes it sounds unbelievably funny...to even think that we have almost spent our lifetime together.....and this is the first time am writing something about him on public forum.We both felt extremely uncomfortable sharing our thoughts for each other infront of everyone before our marriage....and may be because of this most of our closest friends were shocked to hear that we were in a relationship and were getting married...but when i come to think of it....i dont think that discomfort has totally gone...atleast not for me....(thats why till date i have not written a testimonial for him...though i have lots to write...both good and bad..:)..)
My first memory of Kaushik is....something i tease and accuse him of till date ....once in class 7 there was a joint class for the sections...and we both were in different sections...and i was new in my school...came last...and i could not get a seat....so maam had asked Kaushik...if he could adjust and share the sitting space with me....and he had said NO.....!!!!!!!..i still remember that...that was the first i had met him...and i was like...how mean a person can be...we both laugh at it whenever i raise this topic....and Kaushik never accepts he had done that..!!!...
As we both were in different sections we hardly met...so the next meeting i remember was when he first came to our tuition....i remember saying to a friend...i dont like this guy..why did he come..??...:):):)...and i really don't remember when with each passing day....we became friends...then good friends...and then best friends..!!!...and am so thankful to GOD....that we will be best friends....for the rest of our lives..
But our ''love story''...if i can call it so....was the most unexpected event in my life...though not his...because according to him... he loved me...from the time we became good friends...and till date takes the credit whenever someone from my inlaws side praises me....according to him...he had the foresight..that i will be a great wife...:O...he can be so melodramatic sometimes..!!!
But for me....it had never struck me that i could love this guy...and even marry him someday...we were so complete opposites..infact we still are...:)
But even today if someone asks me what would i like to change in him..i would say nothing,...because i think we clicked because he was and is himself....thats the one thing i like and respect most about him...had it not been for his honesty...his patience of handling me in many of my worst behavior..and his unconditional love...my life would have been a lot lot different.....
We both have a lifetime of memories together...some great...and some pretty bad...i know he will understand what i mean...but i will cherish each one of them....because even the bad ones make me realize..that had it not been for him...it could have been a lot worse...almost unbearable....!!
So just to sum up....all i wanted to say is that am so so happy and glad...that i had met u....fell in love with u...married u...and thanks for being there when i had no hope we can be together... ever....thanks for accepting me as i am....and thanks for being the strength behind my smile even on worst days of my life.
I had never thought i could open up and write somethings that are very personal to me...but sometimes ..u just have to..need to and want to....so here is to the friendship...the love...the marriage...the life we both share....inspite of the fact that we fight almost every day on some issues or the other....!!
Thank u..!!!
